Pain is a Choice

I don’t know why but the more it hurts the more I laugh. Maybe being in pain is just an ordinary predicament to me where I used to face every day. Maybe pain has become my comfort zone. It became my home where I used to get out in a minute and after a while or at the end of the day pain is where I end. It is where I ended. Pain can be tormented for some. However, in my case, I learned to enjoy it. I learned to caress the pain growing inside me. I learned to be part of it as it became part of me. Pain can torture you if you to. But if not? You can be happy together with it. Pain as my pain reliever. Pain as my friend. Pain as me.

We made a lot of decisions that may cause us to regret something or that made us happy. The choices we made may dictate our future. Therefore, if you choose to suffer then it’s your choice but if not then it’s not.

The pain we felt may define what kind of person we are—it may be in a negative or positive way. Let us put it this way, you are suffering than you deserve because maybe you are a good person having a soft heart. Maybe you are just a good person and others might have taken you for granted that’s why you are suffering than you intended to. Suffering isn’t just because you made something bad neither nor you have hurt someone.
 
In a negative way, we suffer because of the wrong decisions we have made in our life. Decisions that we probably regretted by now. Decisions that we want to correct.
 
But there is a good thing in pain. Pain makes us stronger. It molds us to become a better person. It nurtures our spirit not to give up so easily. Embrace pain, love it and it will leave eventually because everything you love always leaves you.